‘The 37-Year-Olds Are Afraid of the 23-Year-Olds Who Work for Them’

I recently stumbled across a provocative article in the New York Times with that intriguing headline.

Honestly, I laughed out loud (drawing my wife’s quizzical attention on an otherwise quiet Saturday morning) when I read it. I’m a (proud) Boomer, of course, and while Gen X basically slipped quietly into the workplace (much to their frustration), Millennials (to my experience) landed with a bang, upending traditional norms of business and meeting etiquette, demanding a voice that seemed well beyond their experience (and, yes, sometimes knowledge)—and, frustratingly (certainly for those of us who played by a different set of rules at their age), getting it. 

So the notion that they were now feeling the same kind of pressures from the next generation of workers (a.k.a. Gen Z) was somewhat humorous to me in a “so, how do you like it?” kind of way.  

Yes, having lived through the not-so-subtle eye-rolling of younger co-workers (and the more recent dismissive “OK, Boomer” commentary), I couldn’t help but find some small modicum of comfort in the notion that that generation was, essentially, being hoisted on its own generational “petard.” 

The problem—particularly for those of us who still want to be seen as “cool”[i]—is that those boundaries are fluid and moving. It’s hard to keep up when you’re not naturally immersed in the culture of the day—it takes effort and persistence, particularly in an era where you lack the opportunity of that interaction in a physical workplace. And, honestly, one’s own experience (and sometimes what we’d label “common sense”) sometimes dictates that those new “norms” are likely only a passing fad (and one that you’d look foolish embracing, regardless).

‘Kids These Days’

Comfortingly enough, the article goes on tell us that researchers call this the “kids these days” effect—and note it has been happening for millennia. Moreover, the author notes that this phenomenon means that “each new generation, christened by marketers and codified by workplace consultants selling tips on how to manage the mysterious youth, can strike the people who came just before them as uniquely self-focused.”[ii]

When I was new to this business, I would joke that nobody comes out of college with plans about retirement, much less thinking about working with retirement plans. And yet, if you’re reading this, odds are you find yourself in at least the latter category. 

That said—and while much is made of the need to communicate “differently” about retirement with younger workers (see “Is It Time to Retire Retirement?”)—it’s never been easy to garner the attention of the not-nearly-ready-for-retirement generation(s) to focus on the financial necessities of that day in the (distant?) future when they’ll need to live on… something. 

‘Different’ Perspectives

There’s little doubt that “retirement” will be different for the next generation—and that the preparations our industry has long espoused could stand some updating. After all, there’ll be no golden watch, almost certainly no pension (if they’ve toiled in the private sector), and as for Social Security? Well, who knows? On the other hand, odds are their labors won’t be stymied by physical limitations, limited by locale—or perhaps even a commute longer than the path from their bed to their couch. Indeed, their work may be such that it never has to—or perhaps gets to—end. And—not insignificantly—they’ll also likely have a longer lifespan over which to consider those alternatives.[iii]

Let’s face it: New generations have long been disruptive to the “status quo,” to the “normal” state of affairs, to the protocols to which we’ve all become accustomed and/or established. Inevitably, when it’s our turn in that cycle, the pace of change is annoyingly slow, the receptivity to new ideas mind-numbingly obtuse—and when our perspective is the status quo… well, we see things differently.   

And all that likely means that if there’s anything to “fear” about those newer to the workforce, it’s that they might make the same mistakes we did.

- Nevin E. Adams, JD

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[i] I’m sure that wanting to be seen as “cool” is probably no longer… 

[ii] And indeed, if there was ever a generation that was (once upon a time) dismissed by its elders as “uniquely self-focused,” it was mine.

[iii] They’ll also have some new tools to help—things like automatic enrollment, automatic escalation, target-date funds and managed accounts.