A few years back — well, now it’s quite a few years back — when my
kids still believed in the reality of Santa Claus, we discovered an
ingenious website that purported to offer a real-time assessment of
their “naughty or nice” status.
Now, as Christmas approached, it was not uncommon for us to caution
our occasionally misbehaving brood that they had best be attentive to
how those actions might be viewed by the big guy at the North Pole.
But nothing we said or did ever had the impact of that website — if
not on their behaviors (they were kids, after all), then certainly on
the level of their concern about the consequences. In fact, in one of
his final years as a “believer,” my son (who, it must be acknowledged,
had been particularly naughty that year) was on the verge of
tears, worried – after a particularly cautionary status - that he'd find
nothing under the Christmas tree but the coal and bundle of switches he
so surely “deserved.”
In similar fashion, must of those responding to the ubiquitous
surveys about their retirement confidence and preparations don’t seem to
have much in the way of rational responses to the gaps they clearly see
between their retirement needs and their savings behaviors. Not that
they actually believe in a retirement version of St. Nick, but that’s
essentially how they behave. That despite the reality that a a
significant number will, when asked to assess their retirement
confidence, express varying degrees of doubt and concern about the
consequences of their “naughty” behaviors.
Indeed, one could certainly argue that many Americans act as though
at retirement some kind of benevolent elf will drop down their chimney
with a bag full of cold cash from the North Pole. They carry on as
though, somehow, their “bad” savings behaviors throughout the year(s)
notwithstanding, they'll be able to pull the wool over the eyes of a
myopic, portly gentleman in a red snowsuit.
Unfortunately, like my son in that week before Christmas, many worry too late to influence the outcome.
Ultimately, the volume of presents under our Christmas tree never
really had anything to do with our kids’ behavior, of course. As
parents, we nurtured their belief in Santa Claus as long as we thought
we could (without subjecting them to the ridicule of their classmates),
not because we truly expected it to modify their behavior (though we
hoped, from time to time), but because we believed that children should
have a chance to believe, if only for a little while, in those kinds of
possibilities.
We all live in a world of possibilities, of course. But as adults we
realize — or should — that those possibilities are frequently bounded in
by the reality of our behaviors. And while this is a season of giving,
of coming together, of sharing with others, it is also a time of year
when we should all be making a list and checking it twice — taking note,
and making changes to what is “naughty and nice” about our personal
behaviors – including our savings behaviors.
Yes, Virginia, as it turns out, there is a retirement
savings Santa Claus — but he looks a lot like you, assisted by “helpers”
like your workplace retirement plan, the employer match, and your
retirement plan advisor.
Happy Holidays!
- Nevin E. Adams, JD
P.S.: Believe it or not, the Naughty or Nice website is still online, at http://www.claus.com/naughtyornice/index.php.htm.
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